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What I always stress in my trainings is that it's simply we're dancing. Your audience does not see the strategy. The target market sees a piece of art, the fluidness, the dancing, the movement.

I know the procedural actions. In those moments where we're functioning together with the child or the system, we are dancing with them.

There is a step-by-step step, primary, second, number 3. . Along with that, I do think that if we use treatment much like as a technique, it won't have the very same influence since it's still continued via a personified mind that can mentalization, that we have the ability to hold the kid's mind in mind in those moments of resonance as we do EMDR treatment.

And for that, we additionally have to do our very own work, which I have received a whole lot of EMDR therapy. I need to recognize what it really feels to visit those darkness within me.

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And I recognize you do that also, Lisa. So when I have actually assumed about my own experience with EMDR, what's often landed for me is this idea of I have a protocol and it's up to me to bring it to life. That's just how I discuss it for myself.

It's a method. It's an architectural drawing of a residence. Yes. Someone needs to develop it, right? A person needs to bring life to it. A person has to bring it forth. And I have usually believed that that's where a lot of the magic and the recovery takes area is the means in which the therapist brings it to life in an attuned way with the client.

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It's such a beautiful reminder of our role in the healing procedure and our responsibility in the recovery procedure. Also. Among things that I usually inform my students is that we can't facilitate adjustment unless we can see something that our customers can recognize they're not able to see.

And when I hear you chatting regarding we have to go right into our own winters months, I even love that language you're making use of. What comes to mind is this concept of if I do not recognize that my winter season can turn into summertime, then I'm not going to have certainty when I'm with my customer that their winter months can transform into summer season.

And I won't be able to hold a new possibility for my client because I have not been with it, to be able to claim it's feasible, the combination, the transformation is feasible due to the fact that I don't recognize. I would love for you to talk more of that around therapists, perhaps even obtaining embeded the tale with the clients or I don't recognize.

As specialists is our very own duty to understand what it seems like to relocate through something and what that can give our customers. Yeah, I love that the analogy and exactly how went from winter seasons to you took it to the next degree. As we experience also the spring and the summer, however we also discover the fall, right.

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As we browse and dance with the different phases of life. I believe that we're better outfitted to go along with an additional human mind, personified mind, to do know to undergo that journey. There is an author, Sarah simply neglected her last name. And she discusses mythology, which I'm fascinated by, that I just romance.

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However as we undergo the underworld, then she claimed, which I enjoy, this, the incorrect self is going to start to alter and afterwards the authentic self arises. Therefore with those travels, fatality and renewal, then we locate that we are and eventually the ones of us that travel back and forth, then we find out to go along with others.

And then we can now see in the underworld. We can see via the shadows and after that we can assist others, right. To embrace that since that becomes part of the recovery. And so in EMDR treatment, we embrace those shadows. We embrace it's not simply a memory as a cognitive spoken narrative, but we accept the experiences from a personified viewpoint.

I mean, there are moments, even with my grown-up customers, where I feel like so honored to be in that minute and to be able to accompany one more human being, to go to those deep degrees, those deep locations of our human presence. Those layers that are so deep, where you know that in that minute something was transformed.

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Those are deep moments that you obtain goosebumps and you know, wow, something took place here. Right? Yeah. I imply, I'm also having feeling, paying attention and mirroring on what you're saying. I'm really feeling the power of what you're discussing in my very own remembrance of those moments. And I understand for me, it's why I made a decision to become a therapist, since I wished to be of service to somebody.